I know last week’s issue was a bit of a shock for many of you. Ha! Me too. But remember, anything can happen at any time. I spent many years taking care of my mom and managing my brother’s hospice journey - it was a lot.

And while it seems unfair, my father was adamant that we came to this planet to serve. If you’re not living some sort of life of service, he just didn’t get it.

So, I don’t know the regular schedule for this newsletter or the MadLove podcast; it will depend on chemo treatments and how I feel afterward.

So, to recap - five weeks ago, I noticed I had jaundice, called 911, and after a long day in the ER, I was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer that has spread to my liver.

Sounds scary, and it is. But I have an excellent team at Mercy. My only wish is that they figure out how to stop being so blunt and maybe add a few more inspirational words. I’m not saying run in, do a backflip, and make promises they can’t keep. Just a few: don’t worry, you are getting great care, and we are doing our very best, and we are committed to that. Look, we can all read the grim news, but just a little encouragement would go a long way. I rarely cry in public, but every time I have this year has been with someone on the oncology team. They deliver this news several times a day, but I am only receiving it once, and it always sounds like a death sentence.

Well, you know, I believe health is wealth. So if this spurs anyone to head out, get some tests, or look at something that’s been nagging you, then we have accomplished something.

Listen, doctors don’t get it all right - they’re your health partner. You have to do your part. It does no good not to tell them what’s really bothering you. You gotta speak up!

Update:

So far, I have had one session of chemo. I slept in the chair when I finally got some pain meds prescribed. Now, if my symptoms had felt like that, I would have gone to the ER much sooner. But this grew over time, and when I finally realized it was the main issue I had, I was almost doubled over in pain trying to sit up for an hour. Listen to your body. And honor it.

I felt okay immediately after, but I fell asleep pretty early. I also have a portable drug I have to wear for an additional 48 hours. I got that removed yesterday, and I was exhausted. My next big mission will be getting my strength back.

Thanks to those who have donated - I deeply appreciate it!

People keep expressing that they admire my strength. I appreciate that, but it’s really faith. I have absolutely no idea how this will turn out, but the outpouring of love, prayers, and kindness has been a big part of this journey.

Let’s go be great.

Love you❤️

judith.

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